Thanks - but the mystery is that the water backs up into the actual kitchen SINK before the SHOWER drain (which is three feet lower.) The sink will fill up (and stay full) and yet the water never backs up into the shower.
H'mm.... this sort of defies the laws of physics... OR there is one of those laws we do not yet understand....
Question: Does your camper have a pipe trap on the kitchen sink? Maybe the prior own took it out.
If you are coming up in the kitchen sink that is apprx 3 feet higher then the shower then somehow, the kitchen sink has an easier path of resistance then the water coming up in the pipe trap in the shower.
mainah's point about the vent pipe being clogged over has some merit but your last statement kind of points to something else going on or a combination there of.
Question no. 2...: Does the shower drain, drain real fast (like it is suppose to) or does it trickle drain going down? Basically if you pour 2 qts of water down the shower drain, poof it's gone in less than 2 seconds OR does it sit there and take 20 plus seconds to drain?
Question no 3...Does the kitchen sink drain, drain continuously (like it is suppose to) or does it trickle drain going down? If you run the sink for several minutes on an known partly empty or empty gray tank, does it back up in the sink after 3 to 4 gallons worth? Looking for a partly clogged drain pipe.
If 3 feet is correct (sounds right) it takes 1.3psi to push water up hill 3 feet in a pipe.
Water - Pressure and Head
If the shower drain is say, 6 to 8 inches above the top of the tank, it takes approx 0.2 to 0.3psi to push water uphill out into the shower. The shower should win...
This acts like there is a blockage in the shower drain not allowing water up into the shower OR a blockage in the kitchen sink drain pipe somewhere not allowing the sink water to drain down into the gray tank.
Question no 4... How exactly are you creating this test? How are you filling the gray tank? Maybe this will lead to some clue on what is going on. How long has this problem existed?
Question no 5... What is the bath room sink doing? Is that drain higher or lower then the kitchen sink and does water drain 3 plus gallons just fine?
I must admit, this is the first time on SOC this topic has come up I recall. This one has my curiosity up big time...