Hi Roy
Here are a few pics that may help explain some of this. There is a general rule to loosen the friction sway bar when backing up. And most times that is all one ever hears, no explanation, just don’t do it. Well I can tell you mechanically you can twist up a friction sway control going forward just as much as backwards. Here are a few reasons of how this happens.
The actual turn. See here. If this turn progresses, the bar is going to bend. It does not matter if you are going forward or backwards and it does not matter if it is tight or loose.
And in this turn the little ball mount will crash the frame even if the friction bar is removed.
So yes, if you exceed the mechanical limits before a total jack knife, something in the hitch has to give. The best way to know this is to slowly with a spotter back up into almost jack knife and STOP, then get out and look. Now get a metal image planted in your head what the TT looks like in the rear view mirror. And don’t go that far.
Back up it is often times easier to back close to jackknife and thus bend the friction sway bar.
The other possible bending of the bar when backing is when it is very tightly set. You back up quick in a direction of turn that can buckle the bar. It would be like this with a fast return to the left. If the bar is set so tight to control and out of balance TT, the bar can grab and buckle instead of slide.
Those are the most common ways folks bend these bars. I’m sure someone has found a few other ways…. And dealers like to say, NEVER back up with the bar on rather then explain what the heck is going on. DW yelled at me several times when we had the Pop Up. Dealer said NEVER back up with the bar on. Well….. after enough of that I showed and explained to her what the guy was talking about.
You mentioned lost cost hitch and you mentioned being about to upgrade. Well 1 at a time. I do not have an actual T1950 loaded tongue weight but a 2005 T1950 has a dry tongue at 380#. So I’m guess-ta-mating it might end up with in the 500 to maybe 550# loaded weight range.
Lowest cost. Here is a Reese 600# round bar hitch. I myself would not buy this style round bar hitch head but it is lowest cost. You need to add a ~ $20 tow ball and a ~ 100 shank to make a complete hitch. Then add on a ~60 to $100 friction sway bar.
http://www.etrailer.com/Weight-Distr...ese/66065.html
Or you can go with this one. This hitch head I would recommend. A 600# trunnion WD hitch. And You need to add a ~ $20 tow ball and a ~ $100 shank to make a complete hitch. Then add on a ~60 to $100 friction sway bar.
http://www.etrailer.com/Weight-Distr...ese/66020.html
Seams they have a package deal with a shank now cheaper too. Still need a ball and friction bar.
http://www.etrailer.com/Weight-Distr...ese/66540.html
Or you can upgrade to the 800# one like this for the same money
http://www.etrailer.com/Weight-Distr...ese/66021.html
And I see they have a 800# packaged with a shank for less then the above separate.
http://www.etrailer.com/Weight-Distr...ese/66541.html
Those trunnion WD hitches are made from 1,700# hitch components. The trunnion hitched head is good to 1,700# so is the snap up brackets. You just upgrade the WD bars and the hitch shank if you want to tow a large TT like mine. You can then add a DC later in life on a bigger TT.
And there is this option now. It has sway control built in the WD hitch. No need for a friction sway bar.
The Reese SC 600# hitch. Still need a $100 shank, $20 ball but no friction sway bar.
http://www.etrailer.com/Weight-Distr...ese/66152.html
Or an 800 # system with shank. Same price as the 600# and adding a shank
http://www.etrailer.com/Weight-Distr...ese/66153.html
Those SC hitch can be upgraded in the future by just buying heavier WD bars and still use the same hitch head and friction brackets.
Now how big (strong) a WD hitch is too big. Well it depends. There is not a hard fast rule that 1 size fits all.
Ride, For the best ride, the WD bars are the same as the loaded tongue weight. So 600# bars on a 600# loaded tongue is strong enough and soft as it is going to be.
Adding 800# bars on a 600# tongue adds a small level of stiffness.
Adding 1,200# bars on a 600# tongue adds more stiffness and some caution pending your TT and your TV. If your Durango truck receiver is only rated at 750# loaded tongue weight in WD mode, using 1,200# WD bars may bend the receiver pin box given the right towing situation. And if you TT has a 3” thin frame, it may bend it. In your case check the T1950. I think it may have 4” channel iron A frame. But also check your truck receiver ratings. I know 1,200# bars work on a 750# tongue but the truck was also a 2500 and had everything built to handle the heavy bars. The ride was OK as the back of my truck was stiff to start with. However on a 1500 truck I would caution using 1,200# WD bars if your receiver is only good to 750 or 800#.
Buying a heavy components and then de-rating it with lighter WD bars allows it to be used later on and not have to rebuy the entire hitch just the WD bars.
Hope this helps
John
PS I do not know if you can buy a complete WD hitch, tow ball, shank and friction sway bar that is upgradable for less then ~$300 However here is something that comes close. It is an EAZ lift. A basic WD hitch with a friction sway control. It has the round bar setup but at least this one you can tilt the head more then the Reese round bar.
http://www.pplmotorhomes.com/parts/r...h-eaz-lift.htm
They have a 1,000# wd bar system on sale now with everything in it. Shank, tow ball and friction bar. BUT it is a 1,000# system. Back to what is your receiver rating? They also have a 750# with shank but you have to by the ball and sway bar.